808 / Bass vs. Kick Drum
Both instruments are trying to own the same low-end space (60–150 Hz). The result: a muddy, undefined low-end where neither instrument is clearly felt.
Give the kick ownership of 80–150 Hz (the "thump"). Give the 808/bass ownership of 40–80 Hz (the "sub weight"). Cut 100–150 Hz on the bass by -4 dB. Cut 40–60 Hz on the kick by -3 dB. They now occupy separate shelves.
Route the kick through a sidechain compressor on the 808. Every time the kick hits, the 808 ducks by 3–6 dB for ~50ms. They take turns in time, so they never overlap.